Are you STRESSED !?
Stress is a constant in our lives
such a constant that we actually dont realize we are under stress, we think its just part of life.
We experience traffic jams, deadlines, eating on the run, We stress when we have bills to pay, job changes, endless chores and too many errands. Our job has stress, not having a job has stress, its stressful maintaining your weight, having a relationship is stressful, not being in a relationship is stressful, family responsibilities are stress, and all those demands on you can be huge amounts of stress.
Not to mention those people who really get on your nerves.
Stress!! Its there! Its everywhere!
Is there anything that can be done? There are so many recommendations for reducing stress, but what really works? Something you do everyday may be different that something you need to do when the stress gauge rises.
We wanted to find answers, tools and techniques which were actually being used and could be shared so more people would have choices on how to work with, manage and embrace the stress in their lives.
If you want to lose weight, go to a skinny doctor. Zig Ziglar
As we interpret from Zigs quote, its more than just talking about it, its actually putting your words intro practice. And being able to explain well enough that someone else can benefit as well.
Author and publisher, Sumner M.
Davenport has combined advice
from experts in their fields and stories from
individuals she interviewed,
each relating specific
techniques that help teach
stress who is the
Barbara Kramer, a professional event planner is a co-author in the book STRESS OUT. She uses a visualization
that someone is really getting
on her nerves.
She takes a minute and closes
her eyes, takes a very deep,
slow breath and imagines herself
sitting by the side of a
beautiful flowing stream of cool
water. Then she continues her
visualization as you sees
herself walk into the stream and
splash around in the water. Her
stress begins to leave her. She
looks around at the beautiful
scenery, the open sky.
She notices the person who has been aggravating
her is also in her stream of
water. There is a small boat
tied up next to her at the bank
of her stress. She invited this
person to get into the boat and
she unties the rope, letting the
boat travel downstream with the
As the boat fades from her view, she is not longer
feeling any attachment to the
feelings of aggravation she
started out with.
explains that her intent is not
to actually harm another person,
but this visualization releases
her from the stress hold she
feels from the other persons
behavior. Then she can handle
what is happening in the real
life situation with more ease.
For long term healthy
results, Barbara gives two
additional powerful examples of
visualization techniques that
can not only shift stress
energy, but will also stimulate
your creative thinking, which
brings about solutions that you
can put into action.
We all have stress. Its is a really term that is commonly used to describe the symptoms your body has in response to increased tension.
The "stress" which people complain about, or that which makes them function less well, is a feeling of tension or pressure that you experience when you feel that the demands placed on you appear to exceed the resources you have to deal with them.
Believe it or not, a certain level of stress is good and is normal to help you deal with the challenges of life. Too much stress, on the other hand, causes your body to react in unpleasant ways. It can even kill you. It is more than being a simple medical condition.
Stress is your body's response.; a combination of physical, mental, and emotional feelings resulting from pressure, worry, especially worry about those things that never finally happen, or worry over guilt from the past.
Stress is anxiety, guilt, the lack of taking responsibility for your own life and the results. Its frustration, a feeling of loss of control, and (a big one) is our attempts to control others.
If they would only change, then we wouldnt have to, and since they wont oblige, were stressed.
Relaxation techniques rather than fighting against stress can be another method to maintain balance in your life.
No matter how many times youve been promised la-la land by certain health and energy workers or what youve heard from Zen Buddhists and transcendental meditators about just say OM; relaxation can be hard work under certain circumstances. A couple of those circumstances could be when your blind date comes to the door in a straightjacket or you show no reflection in the mirror. Other more real circumstances occur in your life everyday, so valid relaxation techniques are necessary and STRESS OUT book intends to offer as many choices as the pages will hold.
Surprising as it seems, some stress does have positive outcomes. "Good stress" If you are an athlete, good stress can give you the energy you need to excel in a physical competition. If you are a computer programmers, good stress could stimulate your thinking. If you are a music composer's , good stress could stimulate your creative energy.
Good stress can give many people the energy to solve problems and to finish hard work. In basic terms, stress is an aspect of living that can be beneficial when it motivates you, encourages change for you or inspires you, but can be the opposite when it does not. Your body is actually designed to deal very well with pressure, excitement or stress while working towards a goal or working through a challenging event; and after the accomplishment of your goal, or the event passes, your body has the need to relax, slow down again and recharge itself.
It is only when this pressure, or this stress, becomes so continuous and intense that you are unable to relax and you feel distressed." You feel out of control, you are no longer able to handle the demands made on you, and your body begins to feel unwell. Too many people go to their Doctors every year with unspecific symptoms of not feeling themselves.
The key to managing stress is achieving the right balance of forces between tension and relaxation.
co-author in the book
uses the stress of physical exercise to keep herself healthy physically and emotionally. Not just any exercise,
she participates in marathons; and not just any marathon
marathons to raise money for
favorite charities. She sees it as a win-win.
After a marathon, her body has spent all of its stress.
She is ready to relax and
recharge and a charity is
supported in reaching their goal
this chapter may be motivated by her example to do something that helps their stress level while they are helping someone else. It
doesn't have to be a marathon.
Charities have sporting events
from short walks to the lengthy
So many times we treat our automobiles better than we treat our mental and physical bodies. That vehicle we travel in everywhere is out physical body and it needs great care to continue to function properly.
You probably wouldnt think of jump starting your car in the morning, cold start without fuel and running it hard all day. Never shutting off the engine leaving it running, even when not going anywhere. You probably wouldnt think of running your car engine at its optimum, in high gear, constantly revving the engine for more power, driving it continually with no service break. If you do, then you know, that if you did this to your car, it would start to break down. And it would become less reliable, and then it would rapidly begin to break down, usually at the most inconvenient times.
Yet, many people jump start their days; run themselves in high gear, overheated, under fed and poor fuel, over accelerated constant push and no breaks. Then we wonder, why we are feeling so poorly and less effective? !
Unrelieved stress can take an emotional as well as physical toll, in the form of anxiety or depression or high blood pressure and heart disease. If unattended, stress can seriously your damage physical health; psychological well-being; and your relationships with your friends, family, and co-workers. Its never too soon or too late to start decreasing the effects of stress in your life.
There are dozens of ways you
can work with and through stress
and maintain a healthy life
regardless of the external
events. These can include many
popular techniques you have
already heard of, some you have
forgotten and new methods are being proven in peoples lives every day.
Old or new, solutions included in
the Stress Out book are the result of
long personal research.
Each chapter is based on
everyday insights, techniques
and tools used by everyday
people - like you.
Show stress whos the boss !